Neice ?!?!?!?!?!?!?

They feel like she is a dirty little secret that needs to swept under the rug. They are placing the feelings they have for the mother onto the child which is very unfair. They haven't realized (because the are selfish) that they are punishing a baby for the sins of there parents. Babies are born innocent but people can only see how they feel about the care giver and ignore the child. There is really nothing you can do about it because they need to grow up and be adults which may take a hundred years or so.